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Lova att du som behöver peruk, väljer en med omsorg. Att du inte ger upp innan du hittar rätt. Känner du att peruk inte är något för dig, då har du gjort ett val. Men låt inte en sur, oinspirerad expedit (Carl M Lundh exempelvis) trycka på dig en peruk som du inte trivs i. Cancer är jobbigt nog. Att dessutom känna sig utklädd med en galen peruk på huvudet gör inte situationen lättare.
Så välj den med omsorg. Och var ute i god tid, peruk-branschen är en lurig bransch! Längre ner på sidan har jag skrivit lite tips och idéer, hur jag blev bemött och hur jag gjorde. Och knasiga bilder på alla peruker jag provade!
Kom gärna med tips och rekommendationer du också, maila gärna dina bilder.

Det tråkiga är att de flesta ser peruken som ett = med ett dåligt självförtroende. Inte som något som piffar upp eller förskönar.
För hur många gånger har jag inte hört av folk säga (i all välmening så klart).
-Du som är så kaxig Cecilia, du kommer att slänga peruken och gå stolt utan. Det handlar inte om mitt självförtroende eller att jag skäms. För får du eksem på armen, inte skyltar du med det? Jag är ju Cecilia, med eller utan hår. men får jag inte känna håret på axlarna, så påminns jag ju hela tiden om att jag är sjuk. Det blir en felvänd affirmation.
Dessutom är jag 184 cm lång och väger 61 tunga kilo.

Hur skulle jag se ut skallig? Jo, som sjuk. Inte så där Kapten Ripely snygg  🙂
Och hittills har jag aldrig träffat en enda kvinna som frivilligt rakat sig skallig, för nu vi pratar inte kapten Ripley, sexig-snaggad utan skallig, med små fjun här och var (mer skalle-per)

Så var stolt! Klart jag vill att det skall se ut som om jag har mitt egna hår. -Men om det nu inte gör det och jag ändå trivs i den? -Ja men, sträck på dig och bli en stolt perukist 🙂

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Som gammal extensions-användare, skrämdes jag inte direkt av tanken på att tappa håret. Visst insåg jag, när sköterskan berättade att 100% tappar håret vid min typ av behandling, att lätt blir det inte. Men som den otroligt korkade optimist jag är så såg jag chansen att slippa dyra frisyrbesök, mer tid för make-upen på morgonen, kortare tid i duschen men framför allt såg jag mig själv med tjockt och snyggt hår. (och slippa se ut som en obäddad säng 🙂 Så att jag skulle ha en snygg peruk som ingen skulle ”se”, som var perukernas peruk, var ju självklart!
Jag fick tillsammans med den generösa rekvisitionen på 7 000:- en lista på företag som jag kunde välja på. Jag googlade och kollade hemsidor.

Och där, just där gick jag in i en helt ny värld.
Peruk-världen är en värld i världen.
Där gäller tyvärr inte vanligt hyfs eller trevligt kundbemötande.
För när du står där med din rekvisition i handen så är du lätt förtjänta pengar.
Och jag tycker att folk som luras är skit dåliga. men att utnyttja svagheten hos en som just fått sitt, antagligen, livs hemskaste besked. Som bara söker information, kärlek och lite omtanke.  Blir mötet med den cyniska perukvärlden hård. (tack och lov för att Rapunzel of Sweden gett sig in i leken).
Det var med peruker min kamp började, när jag hamnade i Cancer-Branschen. Som fick mig att öppna ögenen och verkligen se, hur illa det är. Och alla hemska berättelser som jag fått berättat för mig. Om kvinnor som bara gett upp.
Som mått så mycket sämre bara för att de, förutom alla hemska cancer-grejer, måste känna sig fula.
Ytlighet är inte klädsamt, men att göra det bästa av sin yta, är en helt annan sak. Och speciellt viktigt, när insidan hotar att gå sönder.

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